Explain
When children hit, if you let it in because they struck. By trying to foster empathy that is, the child will behave cautiously. Of course, that children need time memehami able to tell us that.
Calm the child
Calm the child will be more targeted in the process of changing the behavior of aggressive children. Children will easily understand what you expect and children will imitate the behavior that you face the problem calmly. Avoid threats, said rough and physical violence.
Give adequate attention
If the cause is looking for attention, then the parents need to utilize it for themselves whether this attention to the children is still lacking. If so, there are good you apologize and promise to spend more time for it.
Teach children to reveal the negative feelings
If you are calm, call for children with the wounded told what he feels. If the child is still difficult to reveal the wounded provoked him with questions such as: "telling the sad ... Why? ".